Relationship question

You can always make effort to make yourself better but don't make other people happy at the detriment of your own happiness. If you know that your guy loves you very well, you can help in working on his weakness.

Gist of the day

It got to a point in life when we are responsible for our actions. Even Nigeria constitution states that a child of 18years is responsible for the choices he/she makes in life. I need to know the educational status of this young lady. Is she done with undergraduate before thinking of marriage? Another thing the lady needs is to overcome her fear, she should face her mother and ask her why she is over protective. She needs to ask her mother why she can't relate with opposite sex even after she's mature.
Lastly, we are a product of the decisions we made. If her mum refuse to explain things to her then i think she should be bold to take the rightful decision and also consult some family members to help her out with her mum.

Thanks @oluwatobiloba

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