What is the best way to move on after a breakup in a relationship?

hardaeborla (68)in #relationship • 6 years ago

Experiencing breakup in relationship most especially with those whom we love and trust will always leave a very sad experience and moments whenever we think about it.

Sometimes we are stocked with the Traumatic experience after experiencing break up with our loved ones. The sad truth is that it becomes very difficult to move on after experiencing such an unfavourable calamity. It takes time to eradicate such experience from our lives and moving on with our normal lives become very difficult.

After pondering over the above question about "the best way to move on in a relationship after break up", I noticed there isn't a certain way or factor to solve such problem. I was able to come up with the below methods and steps and I hope it will surely help to solve the problem if properly applied the way I have explained in the context below.

### BEST WAYS TO MOVE ON AFTER BREAK UP IN RELATIONSHIP

1) ACCEPT YOUR FATE: One of the best ways of getting happiness in life is to always accept things that don't come your way or things you wished for that didn't happen as your destiny or fate. You just have to accept your fate sometimes and this doesn't means you are weak. You are just relieving yourself from unfavourable stress and energy till the right things meant for you chases you.

Sometimes, some people who break up with us aren't really meant to be with us for real. If they are meant for us, they will never break up with us. You just have to accept it that it is destined that you will experience such in life. Accepting your fate will enable the real ones find you and you will never regret meeting the person meant for you.

In summary, try to accept some calamities as fate or destiny and keep hoping for the best, it will surely help you overcome such challenges.

2) LOVE YOURSELF : Don't allow your happiness to be determined by people. Always love yourself and this will make you happy. If you have to take some time to evaluate yourself and value whom you really are.

Loving yourself will enable you to be independent on other people's love towards you because you aren't going to be bothered about people's opinions towards you.

This implies that if anyone break up with you because of some reason, you won't be bothered about it because you already love yourself and that makes you independent about such people's opinions towards you.

3) HAVE FUN SBD ENJOY YOUR SELF : Sometimes whenever I am sad or anytime I feel bad about something happening to me, I will find a means of forgetting it. One of the best tricks I love to use is by having fun and enjoying myself.

Always have fun and enjoy yourself remember the four letter words YOLO (You Only Live Once). Why should you allow someone from nowhere to take away your happiness or fun away from you?

Take yourself out, go shopping, watch movies, play games and do other things you love to do that makes you very happy such that you will forget about any thing that hurts you.

4) AVOID THE MEMORIES/ MOMENT SPENT TOGETHER : You have to do away with anything that can make you remember the moment or memories you spent together with that person.

Try as much as possible to stop visiting those places you both visited for the time being and avoid getting close to such memories. There is high chance you start thinking about the person and this will add more to your thoughts about such person as this may cause you sadness and depression. Always try to avoid this by doing away with the memories spent together.

5) STAY PRODUCTIVE : Anyone who is always busy doing something will have less time for distractions. Always try to stay productive either by learning a new skill or project, exercising, developing yourself, etc. This will make you avoid any thoughts that could make you feel depressed from the break up you experienced.

These are the above steps that can help you to move on after experiencing break up in a relationship. Please NOTE that overcoming break up isn't a day job or it isn't something that can be done once. It takes time to eradicate such experience and I hope this post will surely help you overcome it when practiced accordingly.

Thanks for reading and I hope this helps.