Indeed James you're in tight condition, no one can decide for you and it is only you that can say you want to forge ahead no matter what happened but the only thing I can say is that it depend on whether you can forget what happened to your lady.

Give yourself time to ponder over the issue but don't forget that you claim to love her when nothing happens to her and now that something happened would all your love turn to hatred because she was a victim of rape and also carrying the child of the kidnapper.

What if you are have married her, then what happened to her now occurred, what would you do to her, so you need to take it easy on her, because if you take any drastic solution you might loss your love one just because you are in pain.

Don't forget she doesn't planned the incident on herself, the only thing is that you need more time to think and reach conclusions over which way you are to take on the matter.

@oluwatobiloba, recently I discovered that guys can actually study nurse. I don't know what course you studied in the institution you attended but you should have studied love doctor if such course is available.