One person's love is enough for two.

in #relationship5 years ago

A question was once raised if a girl or boy will prefer marrying someone he or she loves or someone who love them instead. A good number of persons choosed someone they love and a few number choosed someone who love them instead, and they were asked why they choosed their answers.

"If I love him, I do be happy with him and voluntary give him the respect he deserve and probably with time he do love me in return" A girl responded.

"If he loves me instead, he do treat me like a queen, protect me like a shield and be assure am coming back home to meet a man who loves me as my feelings develope gradually" another girl responded.

After several argument and debate on the question. The teacher paused them and decided to chip in. "You're all right" the teacher started "but then, you are all saying thesame thing, in it simplest form you all meant ,one person's love is enough for two"

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He stayed for a while and observed their reaction. He noticed few understood, some were more confused and another showing signs of unbelieve. "Alright then" he continued "provided at the later end ,the other will also fall in love, this means ' one person's love is enough to gear up the other person's love only if one genuinely expresses his or her love in character"

"The more reason why we feel we are not loved is the inability to capture the other person's love in our expressions. Truly to be love comes with a cost and the cost is as simple as having understanding on what to do in line with our feelings". He continued "The Bible said "Iron sharpening Iron". This mean only identical item produce it kind, love sharpening love, hate sharpening hate, faith sharpening faith. So if we need love , we give out love. And as long as one person is giving out love, it's enough for two"

The kind of relationship that doesn't work out is the kind which the both doesn't expresses love, or when either of them are guided by physical qualities instead of love. Sometimes people could presume infatuation, lust and morally good behavior toward another as love. And in this case the relationship still get stuck where the both is insatiable with the other person's expression. When it is love, genuine love, even if felt by one person, it's enough for the both partner.

Love doesn't holds record of wrong. If one expression of love doesn't carry this quality, then it's not love at all, that's because love covers all wrong and is new every morning.

In virtues ,love is the greatest. And even in it smallest, it's great enough for two.

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While it's true that one is enough for two, this is called being in a one sided relationship, one person becomes more invested then the other, and like in the situation from the 2nd girl I wouldn't want to be the guy working so hard for her to only leave if the money runs out.

Hahaha, sometimes not all girls are there for the money. But then I think it's better to enter a relationship knowing the girl doesn't love you than going into one where the girl pretence to love you.

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