Getting rid of short term emotions

Humans!!!
We get into exciting feelings almost everytime which sometimes doesn't last or does last depending on how you stretch it.

Short term emotions are those that most times takes us unawares, give is the best feelings, make us draw up fantasies and in most cases puts us in compromising or confusing situations.

The dictionary has tried to define them but we the feelers know where it tingles and can define it better and so we don't get into a misunderstanding, I'll list the short term emotions in relation to my post

• CRUSH: this is a romantic feeling for someone you do not know well
• FLING: a short, often sexual relationship
• INFATUATION: intense but short-lived passion and admiration for someone or something
• LUST: having a strong sexual desire
  
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The single peeps may not appreciate this much but for those in one committed relationship or the other, you find yourself slipping and so many times you try to beat your self to stop but it just doesn't happen.

These feelings when they come are exciting like i said earlier, it happens like something that you've never experienced before, deep down you know it wouldn't last, you can't help but continue.

Its like treading a dangerous zone where the danger ahead keeps calling forth but then again it comes with confusion and tends to complicate situations for you.

I've tried a few tips that worked and I'll like to share them with us

• take responsibility : own up to your feelings and admit you are feeling so. Some times we drain ourselves in morality checks that we shouldn't be feeling this way, and this and that...
  Ouch. If you weren't supposed to feel that way then you wouldn't, deed has been done, you're to deal with it.
  Owning up to your feeling is the first step.

• Talk about it: if it's so much of a burden to you, talk to a trusted friend about it, your partner or even the party involved. Yeah, you might need a lot of courage for that.
  Well i do it, if i have a crush on someone and it's beyond my control, i tell him.
  Telling him just feels like the bubble has been burst and it has a way of fading out the feeling.
  So talking about it really works.

• Don't create fantasies : that's like refueling fire, it would keep the feelings active.
  Rule out every possibility of you being together, climbing mountains, riding donkeys, taking selfies and all.
  You know it's not going to happen, don't put yourself through all of that...
  
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Well you know i don't like to talk too much
Don't complicate things for yourself when you could find your way out unbruised...

Lemme goan open up to my crush 😂😂😂