I have been watching this Israeli soap opera on Amazon Prime. It's about the love lives of a bunch of Orthodox Jews in Israel. This is funny because it's not the kind of show that I usually enjoy or follow. I do admit that part of the reason I started watching it was the chicks.

Only one of them is what I'd call exceptionally beautiful, but they all have very pretty eyes and nice busts. Jewish girls do tend to have nice busts...but here is the other funny thing. I have never dated a Jewish girl. Although I am half Jewish, and I look Jewish (although I have also been taken as Mexican or Italian), I have never gone out with one myself.

They are well within my dating preferences: dark hair, dark eyes, short, bigger busts.

Who have I gone out with?

For accounting purposes, I am not counting women that were one night stands or that money played the major part in being with them...i.e. meeting a topless dancer after her shift after dropping a wad at the titty bar, or PI bargirls. In addition, I did not have sex with all, or even MOST of the women I am counting here...this is just dating. I am not counting married women I had fliratious lunches with. Finally, this is inaccurate...I've been contemplating this post a couple of days, and I keep remembering women that I had completely forgotten about.

• Not surprisingly, Latina women come in at the top. 22 that I can remember. A personal favorite, and I heartily recommend dating Latina women. Just be prepared for some hyperfeminine bursts of anger. It's not like all women don't have these, but Latinas top the list here ;> FWIW, every woman I have been in love with has been Latina.

• What did surprise me is that I have dated 14 white women, who are number two in the count. I would have SWORN it would be Asian women. In any case, most of these women have been in my type...short and dark complected. On contemplation, most of the white women have been on the chubbier side as well. Not really a problem for me, but I don't understand why this would be limited to the white chicks (maybe for heavier boobage?). This is also the category where I have been "fixed up" the most. I was pressured into 4 of these dates, with the predictable failure rate for the following kind of exchange:

What does she look like?
You'll like her, she's pretty
OK, but what does she look like?
She's thin and has red hair
Nope, not interested. You know I like the dark meat
C'mon you two would work out great together
How big are her tits?
Jesus,don't ask that in front of my wife!
Look, she is a great girl, we'll double
Shit, you buy the first two rounds

• Next up are Asian women, with 11 on the list. I would have bet on more, but I realized the paying filter kicked this back a bit. These tended to be longer periods of dating, and were mostly in my college days. In fact, almost half of them came directly out of the Japanese language classes I took. I kept blowing off college study for heavy drinking, and I ended up taking the first semester of Second Year Japanese 3 times before I passed it.

• The black girls I dated (4 total) have all came out of the middle class. One was half Thai, and one was half-white. None of them was batshit leftist/democrat, from which I understand is fairly common in black women, but then again, I ditch women as soon as they utter the slightest socialist drivel, so this was pretty much a prescreened issue ;> One of these girls didn't last long because her dad did not like me one bit. It wasn't racial, but class snobbery. He was middle upper class, and he did not like that not only had I been in the military, but I had been enlisted! Oh, the horror. She was too much of a daddy's girl for me to stay in that situation.

• 2 South Asians; one Indian, one Sikh. The Sikh was a topless dancer, and she was drop dead gorgeous. I had gotten two dances from her, and was stretching out the time she was sitting with me by being charming (well, as possible as THAT is for ME, ROFL). I guess it worked, because she asked me out. That girl loved her porn, but she was in the top three crazy ones of my life. It didn't last three weeks, becuase she outpaced me even with the shit I was pulling those days!

• But no Jewish chicks. When I first got out of the Corps, there was a real beauty that was a social worker for my friend's kid. We flirted, and I remember his (my friend's) mom trying to set me and the social worker up. For the life of me, I have no idea why I didn't follow through. Maybe I was just enjoying being single, chasing women on 6th Street and going to the soiled doves if i didn't catch one, too much?

Then

When I was a young man, a friend of mine told me that every day that you didn't get laid was a day gone forever. Now and then, I am horrible at social situations, and double that with women, so I didn't get laid as much as I would have liked. I also preferred to pay for it when possible.

South Park had it right:

Chef: You see, chidren, sometimes a man needs to be with a woman.
But sometimes, when the lovin' is over, the woman just wants to talk and talk
and talk and talk.
[song]
But a prostitute is someone who would love you
No matter who you are, or what you look like.
Yes, it's true, children.
That's not why you pay a prostitute,
No, you don't pay her to stay, you pay her to leave afterwards.
That's why I pays a lot for prostitutes!

http://southpark.cc.com/clips/152431/prostitute

I was always never good at dating multiple girls at once; I always felt guilty, even before there was anything understood, AND I got jealous where I had no right to be.

Like I said, I'm pretty bad with people skills ;>

Now

These days, I am not in constant rut. It has given me time to think about sex and relationships. And here comes the common stereotype...the person who has had lots of happyfuntime in their youth preaching control, self-discipline, and family...once they are no longer "in the game"

I am not saying that one should be celibate outside of marriage, but that children and sexual diseases are the common results of an irresponsible sex life. I'm not going to go all professor mode with studies and links either, but I will state that FOR WOMEN, the more partners they have increases the chance they are unable to create satisfying happy pair bonds down the line. Perhaps it's not fair to women, but there are AT LEAST two things that come into play:

• Women that don't have children tend to be less satisfied than women who do have them
• Women who have a wider range of experience tend to be less satisfied then women who don't "know any better"
• [Corollary:] An inexperienced woman (0-2 partners)is more likely to be satisfied with what's she got
• [Corollary:] Women tend to have a greater affinity for their "first". look up the term "alpha widow" for an approximate description of this.

The very rigid definitions that most religions define for marriage have very solid socio-biological reasons. I'll go into redpill sexuality in another post one day. It's no picnic for men anyway...

• Women are biologically programmed to get the best GENETIC donor, while at the same time SOCIALLY programmed to get the best SOCIAL partner.
• Most men aren't top tier genetic material. Freed of marital restrictions, a LOT of women would be happy to be part of The Big Dog's harem...at least on one level
• Having a lot of unhappy (unlaid) men in your society is a recipe for crackpot revolutionaries...A hooker in every pot!
• The vast majority of people would be happy in a comfortable pair-bonded situation

So marriage tends to balance men's and women's needs out socially, as well providing a stable environment for raising rug rats

Obviously, this doesn't work for everyone. But it should definitely be considered when running around with your hormones bursting out your...ears...while trying to get a little rompypompy.