Do you think some of this is fallout from coming to Steemit from other social media websites e.g. facebook, twitter, etc.?
I feel like facebook and twitter have becoming hostile breeding grounds where people of differing opinions constantly flag each other. It seems unsurprising to me that this is the case for new Steemit users.
You sum things up really well in the last paragraph (restated here for emphasis):
"So, the answer to a strong community isn't ending arguments, it is learning how to argue well enough that solutions are created instead of walls to defend what isn't working. Not an easy task but it is up to each individual to develop their skills to achieve this."
Hopefully all the new users will continue to learn this so that steemit can remain a positive place that is almost a refuge from the hostility that is seen elsewhere online.
Thanks for the writing this!
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Perhaps it is the internet in general since it gives the ability to echo chamber easily so there is less criticism to deal with. When someone finally pushes back, they retaliate instead of building an argument. People are also thinner skinned and more entitled. They think freedom of speech means no critical response is allowed.
"Perhaps it is the internet in general since it gives the ability to echo chamber easily" - That's a good point as there are so many sites that allow full anonymity and no accountability.
"People are also thinner skinned and more entitled." - Agreed... anyone can look up the famous and wealthy and feel that the same level of opulence is deserved. When it isn't, it may translate to self image issues which could cause one to lash out. I'm no doctor but there have been a number of studies showing self-esteem issues related to internet/social media use.
Thanks for the thoughtful response.
there are many conflicts the internet fantasy creates and most people do not recognize the influence.
When I have the tie I try :)