we just need to respect each other and use valid arguments. With the respect and kindness we can just read the arguments and when we are ready we can calmly reply. Especially here it's really easy to take your time search the argument if it's valid or not and then reply back

What i think the majority of people are doing is that they try to defend themselves even if they are wrong. That's simple psychology because you don't wanna feel like you are losing and therefore being the loser. When they understand that through this (if they are wrong) they gonna get better people then the world will move forward a bit