How to be popular in any group.

How you want to be more popular and welcomed by people in your business and social circle?

Well,you can be by learning how to be more charming in every interaction with others.

The deepest human need is the desire to feel important and special.When you go through life building self-confidence and making other people feel important and valuable,they will like you,welcome you and open every door for you.this is secret how to be popular both professionally and personally.

If you are in business,becoming a charming person ,making other people feel important,will help you in every business situation,from negotiating terms to borrow money to influencing key customers.

In your personal ,family and social life,learning to be more charming will make you more popular,desirable,influential and persuasive than any other quality.
So how will you actually become a charming person?Here are the five behavior you can practice with every person to make him feel more important

1-SMILE IN EVERY INTRACTION

2-SAY THANK YOU EARLY AND OFTEN

3-GIVE GENUINE COMPLEMENTS

4-GIVE PRAISE AND APPROVAL OFTEN

5-GIVE THEM YOUR FULL ATTENTION

1-Smile in every interaction.

Each person has a deep-down need to be accepted unconditionally unconditionally by other people, without judgment or criticism.
And how to express this unconditional positive regard?Simple just smile.An open honest happy-to-see-you smile warms people,s hearts,makes the feel important,and causes them unconsciously to like you from the first moment.

2-Say"thank you"

Everyone loves to be appreciated for something ,anything they have done for someone.
When you said the magic word "thank you"early and often you make people feel special and important and increase their desire to do things for you .

3-Give genuine compliments.

When ever you admire the possessions,traits or accomplishments of others,they automatically feel more important and valuable .As Abraham Lincoln said"Everybody likes complement."
Admire people,s choice in clothing,hairstyles,cars ,purses or office layout.Admire their degrees or certificates.Whenever you complements someone on something he or she has obviously develop time and emotions in achieving ,you boost their self image and build high self-esteem .As a result they find you to be charming.

4-Give praise and approval often

Give praise and approval generously,for both small and large accomplishments.
Whenever anyone does anything worthwhile,tell them how good they are,and what a fine job they have done,building self-confidence and high-esteem.

One definition of self-esteem is"how much person feel praiseworthy.

When ever you praise your spouse and children,your staff and coworkers,your customers,you make them feel more important and make them to see you as charming.

5-Give them your full attention

People feel important and valuable to the degree to which they are listened to and respect.
Whenever you listen closely to another person when he is talking,his self-esteem goes up.His brain releases endorphins ,natural happy drug and he feel good about being in your presence.

Go through life looking for little opportunists to make people feel important and valuable.Smile at them as you feel glad to see them.Thank them regularly. Complement they sincerely. Praise them lavishly. And listen them with your full attention,when they speak build self confidence and promoting self -esteem.

Soon ,almost without effort on your part,everyone will be talking about"what a charming person you are"