The Importance of Connection in a Relationship - Part 2

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Connection don't just happen. I remember how my mom told me she would just pick her husbands thought when they're dating and then she will just thank God in her heart that she is engaged with him. My dad told me this morning while leaving for work, that he had a feeling though last night that he will forget his phone at home and he almost did this morning. Normally he picked his things ready to go to work and then she (my mum) wasn't there when he (my dad) put his things in his bag and then she said "is like you forget your tab in the room" where he (my dad) put it self she (my mum) can't tell quickly if my dad forget or not.

You can't be left carnal or be a natural person while you expect an intense connection with your partner. Of course I know the kind of connection I could talk about among folks who are not Christian if I want to. But, for you as a believer, you just understand that a connection with God will keep you even in tune connection with your partner or wife. What we need to build and work on is our relationship with the Lord, then our connection with our partner will be easy.

You can both get to a point where you can pick the thoughts of God at the same time because of your connection with God. Just in tune with the Lord! I know you're already feeling boring because of the way I started. Many desire to know what keeps a relationship or marriage working and I am glad to say, it is connection with your partner.

Connecting with your partner is a fuel into having a beautiful relationship or marriage. When we don't strive to having a connective relationship or marriage, we may have a repulsive relationship or marriage. Let me talk about a repulsive relationship. A repulsive relationship or marriage is one which you no longer see anything interesting about your relationship or marriage. You're both tired of one another.

You're both not enjoying the relationship because you lost connection. When you look at your Telegram app, when the network is off, it will right connecting, telling you it's trying to connect. That's the way it is when you're out of connection with your partner but immediately network comes back you'll see connected and then your Telegram work again.

A repulsive relationship will always make you see the need in connecting or finding a quick and better replacement for your partner because you don't feel the spark again or you don't feel connected again. It's unwise to do, especially when you're not feeling that connection in your relationship again. People begin to repel in their relationships or marriages.

They begin to withdraw and then they lose the sweetness in their relationships or marriages. When in a repulsive relationship or marriage, abuse is not far from the relationship or marriage.

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