Like you said the holy spirt needs to transform my understanding, as Christians we must learn to pray to ask God for viable things, we should know that the things of the spirit are important in our lives that's why we must ask God to renew his spirit in us everyday and transform our lives, to be a refined believer, we need the fruit of the spirit in our lives we need God's unending mercies, his anoiting and his blessings upon our patched soul