Marriage and adversities

25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church, and gave himself up for her.
biblical source

Every time I read this verse from the bible, I say to myself, wao, the God who is favored in marriage, a very beautiful task but at the same time very difficult for humans, I do not say impossible (notice that the example that the father took was Christ). , God in his great love for us decided to send Jesus to die for our sins so that we may be redeemed.

It did not matter that Jesus was suffering, not even the cross made God (father) decide to change his decision, Christ must die in obedience for us. And he tells the husbands who also made the decision to join their lives with their wife you should love her as Christ loves the church.

Christ gave himself completely, suffered, was humiliated and beaten until suffering his death, I am not saying that man has to suffer until death .... No ..... lol.

What I want to express is that it is normal for a marriage to exist situations that want to make us give up, it is natural for difficult situations and especially when the couple has not been married for a short time and they are going through the moment of coupling and really getting to know each other in privacy.

Sometimes we feel insastiferous because we husbands or espasas we expect from our spouse to the different, maybe you need more attention and this makes you feel different but we must remember one thing only The Lord is enough, the man and the woman are human and imperfect beings and We must remember that only in God can we satisfy ourselves completely. The spouses are complements and united with God they are complete.

A marriage can only overcome any situation if we put God in the middle of marriage, we can not get God out of the room and leave it waiting in the living room, in God our spouses are sheltered. And our decision will be firm every day if we are grounded in our relationship with God.