CURTSHIP/PRE-MARITAL FACTS
TEXT:-Gen 2:22, 2:18, 2:25
Courtship is different from dating. Courtship ends in marriage but date ends in the meeting point. Courtship is a period of relationship development between 2 opposite sex which ends in marriage if tested and proven by God.
NB:- Before you find your partner find your call
When you find your call use it to find your partner, Because the partner you chose might not fit in your call. All am speaking on is based on born again relationship. God never created any special being for any one he only made help meet for each other .... Stop looking for mr/miss perfect, Rather look for mr/miss God fearing person.
If your toaster is not beautiful to you pls don't pls don't force urself in, I no many spiritual saint will say beauty doesn't matter🤔Because this has led to cheating btw couples... Where by a partner is ashamed to go out with the other person.
Isaac and Rebekah never court for a day and it leads to years of battle btw there kids whereby a jacob is openly preferred to isau by the mother... If courtship has been involve that ground might have been declared secrete and safe. Its normal to love a child than the other but it bcomes abnormal when you make it visible.
NB :-The strongest force of courtship/marriage is not love but understanding take note.
Love brings you together but understanding sustains you forever. No volume of books or teaching can grant you marital balance...it can only help to some extent. There is a marital anointing that gives you answer to issues per-time...Its different from the anointing of your calling.
Some postor has broken home despite the fact that they are powerfully anointed*why..bcus ur calling anointing can't sustain ur martial life. There is no perfect marriage under the heaven but there is certainly a good marriage
Every courtship/marriage has a challenge but the ability to settle it is what distinguish us. If your partner said he/she is never arouse sexually he needs a medical attention, Never tag it has spiritual maturity.
If your partner has no one he/she can listen to for advice its a clear prove that he/she is not ready for marriage/courtship just flee away. Understand the sex/affection system of your partner before marriage, i don't mean you should taste pls. You know it in courtship not in marriage.
So if u know u can't coup after several words to convince you from your mentor or pastor pls leave the relationship ...Bcus u might find ur self doing what God don't want in marriage. Sex in marriage is one important thing. We don't have sexual compatibility but sexual commitment.
When you noticed your partner is emotionally moved,try to control him or her by staying back or define a means to help control not contact pls ...And never tag him/her as a carnal being. He or she is only fulfilling the law of manhood/womanhood. Even as man of Spirit, flesh and blood still runs through our veins.
Never criticise anyone who says.."one of my goals to get married is to satisfy my sex life"..the person is very correct and scriptural...(1cor 7:2). Marriage might not have a specific state but it has a scriptural state (Ezik 16:4-13)
1)Physical maturity
2)financial maturity
3)spiritual maturity
4)emotional maturity
5)intellectual maturity...
Although perfection might not appear in this entities but quality percentage is needful. Outer courtship/marital issues might be shared with a friend but inner ones are only shared with 3 people
1)your partner
God
your spiritual guider
Never pass the night in your partners house no matter how spiritual he/she might be, devil is at the other side. Except you are hooked by circumstances that warrant you not to go,notwithstanding make sure you are more than 2 in that room if not...Hmm
Lastly as I close the strongest enemy in marriage/courtship is not d devil,is "ignorance". The devil only rides on the back of ignorance to fight homes...
Father we thank u for ur word so far
We pray that u teach us more than we ve just learnt. Grant us the anointing to sustain our marital life's ..Amren
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