Thank you for this post!
Lack of confidence in God is what is making us run Helter skelta!
When we pray over a thing and we know God heard us,

1. We should believe that the timing is in God's hands not your own!
2. We should know that God loves us more than how we love ourselves!
3. That in all our afflictions, He is afflicted!
4. That His plans are better than our plans!
5. That all things work together for our good if we know we love Him and are the called!

We don't command God or use God as some do because your prayers can't fast forward not rewind Him!
We should also realise that God is not a magician but a miracle worker.
If we want quick fixes without process, the devil is so good at that through his servants(charms, talisman, juju, Marine powers etc).

Having confidence in Him is through His infallible word through His own process because he that believe shall not make haste!