We do not know exactly what happened, but if we know of a dialogue between Jesus and his mother, verse 3 says, "And when the wine was lacking, the mother of Jesus said to her, They have no wine." The tone of his voice must have been an undeniable request, you must do something Jesus! Mary knew that he was special, he knew it from the angel's announcement, he knew when he took him to the temple at 8 days old to be circumcised, and Simeon said "this is the Messiah we were waiting for, He will be the light of the Gentiles and the Glory of Israel "She knew that He was special when a few years later strange men from the East knocked at His door to worship Him.