Dyspareunia(Pain during sex); common myths and ways it can be treated.

Hello steemians and a happy Monday to you all.

Today happened to be one of my laziest days in school even after waking up early to take a bath and rush to school.On getting there the motivation and energy was lost just because i left my theater scrubs back at home. it was sad but i couldn't join my colleagues for today's work. to cut my story short, i ended up at the library where i came cross the word "Dyspareunia"which simply means pain during sex. i will like to write in details this condition and to also clear the myths that has been in our hearts concerning this condition . first i will start with the myths and then proceed to the condition proper.

Some Common Myths on DYSPAREUNIA

Painful sex, or abstinence from intercourse because of pain is a more common condition than you might realize. Unfortunately, it's not a subject that many are quick to talk about. Embarrassment, feelings of inadequacy, and general perception with the topic can cause women and couples to avoid seeking the assistance that can grant relief. We've decided to debunk some of the myths surrounding painful sex, and what can be done about it. Most importantly though, don't be afraid to speak to your physician, or seek out a professional with experience specifically in the field.

Myth # 1. There is no explanation for why sex is painful.

Every day, women around the world experience painful sex or difficulty with penetration. While women, and their partners, may believe it’s just a fact of life or an occurrence that is normal, there is an explanation.

Commonly, painful sex is a symptom of vaginismus (Vaginismus, sometimes called vaginism, is a condition that affects a woman's ability to engage in vaginal penetration, including sexual intercourse.This is the result of an involuntary vaginal muscle spasm, which makes any kind of vaginal penetration painful or impossible) or dyspareunia (pain experienced during sex due to an organic cause). Vaginismus, or the painful spasmodic contraction of the vagina in response to physical contact or pressure, is a real medical condition, and its treatable.

Myth #2. Sex is supposed to hurt.

While many women just “accept” and equally believe that sex ought to be painful, sex is NOT supposed to hurt. True, a woman’s first sexual interaction may be painful, but ongoing pain and discomfort during sex is atypical and should be examined by a medical professional.

Myth #3. Painful Sex is your Fault.

There are many emotions and breakdowns that are characteristic to having painful sex, including the associated shame and secrecy, the feeling of helplessness and of being ‘stuck forever’ with this condition, and an overall perception of being a failure as a woman and a sexual partner. However, painful sex is NEVER the fault of any woman. In many cases, painful sex can be attributed to treatable conditions such as vaginismus or dyspareunia.

Myth #4. There is no Cure for Painful Sex.

Unfortunately, some women do believe that there is no cure for painful sex. This is NOT true! Painful sex is generally a treatable condition, and treating vaginismus or dyspareunia is an attainable goal with the proper help. Visiting a specialized treatment center such as the Women's Therapy Center is a great first step in achieving pain-free sex.

Myth #5. Painful Sex will go away on its own.

Many women choose to wait to see if pain during intercourse will go away. Unfortunately, painful sex generally does not go away on it’s own. The earlier you seek treatment for vaginismus or dyspareunia, the sooner you’ll achieve pain free sex. So just remember - it’s not your fault, there is no reason to feel ashamed, and there is a cure!

if you have any more myths on painful sex, kindly drop in the comment box for our knowledge. In my next post i will show you what Dyspareunia is comprehensively and also talk about its treatments.