Are you strong or weak ?

in #steemit6 years ago (edited)

There are people who choose to run away to hide the damage that is in the heart, or some other strong against the truth despite the storm.
Theoretically, all the experiences gained in life help us become stronger and better. Optimizing, mastering life and never feeling remorse for yourself are some of the characteristics of a strong person.Some people live by reason, others live by emotion. But strong people are the opposite, they always know how to balance both because they understand when emotions override reason in the decision-making process to be able to adjust to the right.If a person lives on their own principles and understands their priorities, they will never have difficulty making decisions. This ability makes them strong and assertive.
After some bad things happened, I was brave and happy.
when I was 15 years old. That is when I have to study too much I always have thoughts of suicide, I go crazy and lock myself in the room. I do not want to communicate with people. I became indifferent to everything. I wrote a dead letter, the content of the letter was: "" If I do not get high marks for high school, I will commit suicide“ ... I finally achieved what I dreamed.
Then I experienced a series of bad events, I lost all the money I have, my face grows more acne, parents always scolded, broke up love, learning less effective, fat and ugly. .. for the age of the members, that is the worst. But I got up and changed dramatically.

Have you ever wondered whether your spirits are really strong or weak?
Often, when it comes to stumbling or failing, we see clearly how strong and weak one is. A strong person will stand up bravely and continue forward, while the weak will often fall, either waiting for a raise or giving up. But whether your spirits are strong or not is easy to see from even the tiniest daily tasks.

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1.The strong person cherishes the present than the past, and the weak sometimes let the past overwhelm the present.

  1. Strong people know that everything needs to process, you can not hope for success immediately. The weak ones want to succeed quickly because they doubt their ability and wisdom.

  2. The weak person always wants everyone to love and like him, and strong people do not need it, they do not care what others think about them. The weak are always afraid of people hating them. Strong people like freedom and do what they like.

  3. A strong person is a person who congratulates the success of the opponent, to take it as a motivation for themselves to strive.A weak person is someone who is jealous of the success of others in a silent way.

  4. The strong man accepts the fact that things do not always go their way, but the weak ones just want to hold onto them all.

  5. Strong people never fear alone, but weak people are always afraid of loneliness.

  6. The strong man always takes the initiative, with all he wants to do, not waiting for anyone to bring them, they never think the world owes him like the weak.

  7. The strong person knows where he is and takes advantage of it in the right place. The weak requires the recognition of everyone, even if they can do no one.

  8. Strong people know who they are, weak people always feel not enough, always feel dissatisfied and unhappy.

  9. The strong person will ask himself very hard to make progress. The weak ones allow themselves to rest whenever they want.

  10. The strong man always finds the good in the bad, and the weak one is very easy to drown if the situation is in the wrong direction.

That's my thoughts on the strong and the weak. are you strong or weak. ? Please add your comments to this article. Thank you for reading this article.

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In life we will all have difficult moments, but I believe that life teaches us to be strong as well.

I agree. Thanks ;D !

As Jacque Fresco not once said : We are simply product of our environment ... There is no genius people !

Take the smartest baby with the best genes and put it in a dark room in the basement . Now wait untill this baby make something genius ...

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hmmm a philosophical statement. thanks for your comment

If you make balance between your emotions and your feeling then you really understand life. Balance here does not mean 50/50, but to know when to use each of one. Personally i preferre to talk about emotional intelligence, that few people use in their relationships.

thank you for the comment, you are the deep person

nice right up
perfect piece for a hustler like me!
its normal to feel down and confused but then the picture of our dreams in our head should never be left to fade out!
keep pushing no matter what!
80% of steemit users are here exploring all options we have to make sure we gather funds to push our dreams!
like me am here to gather funds to pursue my music dreams

Two months ago, I sang a lot, but I did not sing well.
Wish you always succeed in life and in Steemit

wow dear such a great post and feel every one to think and listen to inner voice and know what is in. great job dear a-alice (65)

thanks buddy :D

most heartly welcome dear

Why can't I be both ? or in the middle

of course hahhaa

cooool article man i'm strong & be strong !!

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