Oh my....This is a juicy topic and I love it!!

This is one of those times where I'm glad I'm a dude. It seems so complicated to be a girl, what with the up-sizing and comparisons. Just fcuk or fight already and get over what ever thing you hate in the other person- which is just what you hate in yourself anyway. The only time I was ever possessive over my partner and wanted to "pee all over her shoes" was when I was feeling insecure about myself. I've since learned that my partner loves me for me and there's nothing to feel insecure about. If there's a "thing" we're curious about, why not be cool with the exploration of it? We're open to the conversation about whatever. Life is all about the experience, the people, the situations. We say enjoy and embrace the possibility of it all!

Sorry you had to deal with the aftermath of a jealous tirade although it's the kind of drama I love to see. It is hawt to think about the fact that we are jealous of the things we're attracted to...