As the mom, you know your child better than anyone, probably better than she knows herself. You understand the balance between letting her do too much and doing too little. You are making smart choices and of course the outcome has some luck involved too; its kind of random who and what a person runs into out there when they are away from home. But you try things and see how they turn out, always hoping for the best and learning from the mistakes. That's life and it will likely all work out in the end!