The Formula to Life

Earlier on I wrote a post about how you can't cheat life. Life equals out one way or another.

I want to dive a little bit deeper into that. Basically, you get out of life what you put into it.

Inputs=Outputs. I believe that this transcends into many different fields of life. Relationships, Work, Business, Friendships, Parenting..etc

Let me give you an example. You're in a relationship that isn't quite working out. Either you or your significant other isn't happy. You both know it. But nobody makes the first move and addresses it. If nothing changes, you're going to get the status quo. The world isn't handing you shit to make your relationship better. It's on you and you alone.

That formula may look like this below.

2 slightly unhappy people + 0 action on either side= 1 slight unhappy relationship. Nothing is being added or changed so nothing will change. There's just equilibrium. Maybe one side wants an amazing, incredible relationship but knows they'll have to find a new person. Then a decision must be made. Take action and make a move, or stay at equilibrium.

That ^ actually wasn't a great example but I hope you get my point.

A lot of times people expect things to change without any added work. Like the world is just going to hand you a breakthrough. It isn't. I don't say this to be discouraging, but rather to encourage you to take complete ownership of every area of your life.