RE: Ping Ping Alert Alert New Message Check This Bling Blong Something Is Happening Look Here Now Here What Next BEEP BEEP
I can't stand it how people can tell when you see their message. If i don't respond immediately "What does it mean?!?" It's the worst. I have my phone on silent for years now and all social media notifications turned off or i would go crazy. I think i have lost friends from it. Not entirely lost but who knows what they really think? It's impossible for the most part to interpret messages unless the person is a top flight writer. I just had a really enlightening experience with how Instagram and everything time stamps everything and also shows when you are there and when you last were there and god knows what else. The short story is i got blocked by a woman i had been flirting back and forth with for a bit. I told her i don't drink or do drugs . I sent her a short message at 2:23 am and got a message back from her at 5:45 am basically saying that it was "just a coincidence" that it was the time bars close here and what am i doing sleeping all day if i'm sober? Note the precise times are on all of this. I didn't see her message until 10:30 am because of course i'm "sleeping all day" right? Anyway she blocked me because i must be lying about not drinking and was texting her after the bar for... well you can guess. Note: We hadn't even met yet. And i can't remember the last time i went out to a bar let alone until 2:00 am. I forgot how weird my hours are to "normal" people. I usually do all my photo editing and posting late at night. So yeah i miss the olden days where i wasn't making a mess of everything in cyber space ; )
Did i go way off topic here? Oops, i think i was trying to say something about something
You said something about something and I think I understand your something and we are on the same something.
Ah, the online flirting game, it's a tricky one. To be honest, you dodged a bullet right there. Sounds like a bit of a mental case that woman. I think it's gone a bit too far when everything is time stamped and all the actions of a person are tracked and available, without you even having to be a tech genius to find out. You could always say that just ignore it, but it doesn't work like that if the other people go all Sherlock Holmes about you reading a message or answering at an unusual time. Oh and if you answer right away, you must have been just sitting with a phone in your hand waiting for him/her to message and that means you are obviously too invested and kind of a creep. It's a loosing battle.
Thank you for your perspective and i'm sure you are right about dodging the bullet on that one! Oh crap i'm writing this response to your response at 11 minutes and i must certainly be a psycho and it's it's 2:11 here and i'm drunk in a bar and...
I really write slow cuz it took like 4 minutes so i must really be dumb or not a good typist and oh shit this makes it worse and i just recalled in The movie Swingers when he calls a billion times and i think i look like i have adhd and probably a whole lot of other problems :)
and i made a bunch of typos but came back and corrected them but everyone can see if they want... ok i quit now
Why is it taking you so long!? You are probably soooo drunk and have a girl on your arm in there, while you chat to other girls on the interwebz, PIG!
Wait, wait you can see me?
... stuffs phone in pocket and looks around wide eyed for spies and cameras
I have my resources.