"Someone may not know the purpose of his life, but he must know how to live life"

I saw one of my students in the neighborhood where I live diligently studying. Until the point; of not having time to play with his friends. The demands of so many tasks cause that it remains in the room to transfer the information that is in the book to the brain or to the memory.

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I'm so sorry for that student. Why? On the one hand, students have their cognitive abilities. But, on the other hand, they have unequal or emotional (affective) paralysis. In my opinion, life is like driving a motorcycle, it is necessary to maintain balance. If the balance of the body is not maintained, then it will fall.

When I look at the student, I suggest that her parents help organize the time so that she is not locked in the room while her friends play. What many of us do not realize is that playing is actually part of the learning process.Source

If this continues, the child will be paralyzed socially. Why do I say social paralysis? Social paralysis occurs when children can not build relationships in their social environment. In fact, in all the associations of the society, the good associations in the employment, the organizational associations, the associations in the schools and others; They definitely need to establish relationships and work with others. In the end it can hamper its potential development.

Is not that our basic need as human beings to cooperate with each other? By working together, we really open many opportunities to learn many things. In that way we can increase the possibility of exploring ourselves. This is where the importance of social interaction.

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In the past, parents did direct their children to hone their IQ. Therefore, a high IQ is defined as a high level of intelligence. However, a new awareness finally emerged that there is another intelligence that also can not be ignored, namely emotional intelligence.

Balance between intelligence, feelings and actions will build up a good character of self-power. Character of self-important role. Because, the character of self is the way of thinking and behavior that is typical of individuals to live and cooperate with the surrounding.

Sometimes, the character of one's self is not balanced. There are people who have brilliant ideas but are not able to cooperate with teamwork. It shows the person has a good IQ intelligence while his emotional intelligence is bad. There are also people who have brilliant minds, he is also good, but lazy to work. It shows the action is weaker than its IQ.

This good character of self will determine our decision-making, behavior and way of thinking. Which will ultimately determine our success.

Each individual has its own character. The environment has an important role in character building. Our character, has an important role in the process of life. Because, the character controls our thoughts and behaviors, which of course determines success, the way we live our lives, grabs obsessions and solves problems.Source

Actually each of us has a distinctive character. And, the particular character of these characters is the strength of our character. Therefore, the uniqueness is what distinguishes us from other individuals.

Character education is given through the planting of character values. Can be knowledge, awareness or willingness and action to implement those values. Output of character education will be seen on the creation of good relationship to self, fellow, environment, society wide and others.

Character education is not only given theoretically in schools, but also needs to be applied in everyday life. So it will become a habit. That habit is proof that the education given has penetrated within a person.

When eating politely, when out of the house, farewell, diligent and courage to realize obsession and ideals, honest, do good to animals and plants, do not throw garbage in any place and others.

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Building character strength is done by involving all elements. Because, every element will have an effect in the process of forming individual characters. A child will imitate and identify what is around him.

So, how to build the strength of that character? The force of character will form by itself if there is support and encouragement of the environment.

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Likewise with character, will be strong when supported by the environment. The role of family, school, community is very dominant in supporting and building strength of character. Strong characters will ultimately play an optimal role in every social interaction.

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Reference:
https://es.slideshare.net/gorkafm/habilidades-sociales-en-educacin-infantil

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