CHILDREN SUFFER WHEN PARENTS DIVORCE.
I am thinking of how hard divorce can be on children. After all they came after marriage and it is not their fault.
People fall in love, marry and have these beautiful children. It is not a decision that is made lightly, a lot of time and thinking go into this.
Then after a few years, they find that they cannot live with each other anymore.
Can it be that they are just not trying hard enough or are there really problems at home.
Now they have children, what now. Sometimes the mother gets them, other times the father. Then the problems start, not for the parents but for the children.
They did not divorce from the parents, and they are torn.
If you want to keep things the way they should be, never ever use your children to hurt each other. 
Think of anything else but always love the children the same way.
There normally is a sharing way, say weekends or holidays but make sure you treat them the same way so the parent who has them all the time do not have trouble when they come home.
We only get one chance to bring these kids up the right way. Parents should forget their disagreements when it comes to children as they all from the same DNA. So parents, always go to the principal of the childs school if you have problems.
It is easier for principals and teachers to sort out problems as they spend more time with the children than the parents normally do. 
image source There are times when you find things do not always work with kids going from one house to another; therefore we must find a good way to make them all happy.
Parents are there to make children well educated, well-mannered and happy.
We must always remember they are not here because they asked to be, they were born from a marriage that was not their plan at all.
God decided to give these two people these children, and no matter what happens, they will always only have one father and one mother. They must go through life knowing how much these children are loved by them.
So parents please ask for help and take it when you get it, as there is nothing more important in the world to look after your children and love your God.
Money cannot buy love; the only way is by giving them your heart.
I hope you have a wonderful day from me here at the wild coast.
Divorce is an ugly reality and fortunately there is help offered to helpless victims, the wife and husband included. So much deprivation and sadness that can last a lifetime. But God.......... and he is the one who can really turn things around in my opinion.
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