@fred703 hmmm...your last warning not to laugh is making me hold myself with great strength...but i must let out this laugh chocking me and hope your lovely wife does not get to know! you are awesome...beautifully narrative a hitherto serious and sad events to make us laugh heartily... well, i hope she does not pass the falling technique to the girls... cos if she does, then you will be the odd guy out! great post worthy of my support and following for more....