Steemit Exclusive: You Never Fail Until You Stop Trying

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If you are struggling to maintain the motivation to stay active in Steemit. This might be a good starter post to help you find that long-lasting motivation.


Warren Buffet is motivated to grow money exponentially. Elon Musk is freakishly driven to make science fiction a reality. And Donald Trump is .. well naturally motivated by his own vanity.

It seems that the key ingredient to success is to ensure you are motivated from the inside at all times.

Of course life isn’t easy. There are always challenges, upsets, hard times and massive amounts of pain.

The only difference between the successful people and the next person is that they didn’t give up.

Below is an inner game technique I used to frame how I approach my life goals.

Choose a goal which the only failure is you quitting


The insight of the day is this — the best kind of motivation came from the natural desire to fulfil your role as a child, parent or the idea of the best version of you.

Dig deeper and try to understand why you picked this goal. Who are you letting down if you gave up? It could be your parent, your best friend, or it could very well be you.

Whoeever it is, you got to make this persoanl. That's the inner game you want to carry to prevent your from quitting.

When you got that down, all unsuccessful attempts in reaching your goal can be framed as just mistakes that you can learn from.

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Let me give you an example.

My story was I divded into the cold water of entrepreneurship while I was still in university.

I was majoring in psychology and I found out that majority of my seniors ended up in the local recruitment industry.

I began to imagine myself being a cog in the machine working as a headhunter or a job recruiter. The lack of freedom and autonomy annoy every single bone of my body.

If I pursue the career of a job recruitment, chances are I won't stay long. As a person who feel more empowered with freedom and autonomy; this is not the right goal.

During the period I was contemplating my job prospect after graduation, I received some negative news about the financial situaton of my household.

That is easily the most significant turning point of my life. Blessing in disguise really.

Long story short, I began to explore the possibility of building a proftiable business. The business needs to help me provide for my family as well as give me the autonomy and freedom I require.

It was the riskiest goal I could ever aim for, especially when I associate the goal with something so personal.

Naturally, that became the undying source of motivation that eventually fueled my subsequent projects whether it's a freelancing gig or business opportunities.


Failure exists in your head.


Failure is an experience when you gave up confidence in accomplishing your goal.

The bright side is, you can control this.

Associate something personal and meaningful to your goal, and let your own intrinsic motivation resource takes over.


Share me your failure stories at the comments below!


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I was pondering our dialog in class about how "disappointments" or "negative" results are frequently looked downward on or observed to be unsatisfactory in the scholarly world. Nonetheless, these "negative" or surprising outcomes can be amazingly enlightening to different specialists. Finding out about what has been endeavored before can enable analysts to grow new and inventive research questions, or in any event, realize what NOT to do and why. I think this perspective of disappointment likely comes from society all in all and the strain to be effective. In any case, as I would like to think, supposed disappointments add to advance.

This line of reasoning drove me to some of the absolute most noticeable individuals from society and their well known expressions about disappointment that I ambiguously heard previously. Quite fascinating that the absolute most acclaimed individuals ever had such knowledge to understand that no outcomes or an unsuccessful trial is, truth be told, a legitimate outcome.

An example of a couple of my top picks:

"Achievement comprises of going from inability to disappointment without loss of eagerness." - Winston Churchill

"Disappointment is essentially the chance to start once more, this time all the more wisely." - Henry Ford

"I have not fizzled. I've recently discovered 10,000 ways that won't work." – Thomas A. Edison

Wow are you a lecturer? @mirzaaliimran

Yes, agreed with your quote picks.

I think it can also be boiled down to the growth/fixed mindset concept.

It's the inner game and mindset you carry through life challenges.

"Disappointment is essentially the chance to start once more, this time all the more wisely." - Henry Ford

Totally agree with this quote. We must not let setbacks, challenges and disappointments stopping us from achieving our goals. The true strength of a person is their ability to stand up again and again, each time they fall.

This will be the start of a motivation series. @originalworks

Great...looking forward to more stuff

Pressure is on. haha! Thank you for following. Will try my best

kindly follow back and upvote my posts please....

I'll check your posts out. Thanks for dropping by

Good piece of advice here. Without goals we will be groping in the dark and allowing things and circumstances to dictate our life instead of being the captain of our own ship. Failure is only FINAL when we decide to give up. Upvoted and followed

Failure is only FINAL when we decide to give up

Exactly.

And as humans, we are motivated out of love and fear. I'm especially excited how we can pegged our goal to either of those two emotions (which can usually be found in family relationships, or our self-image), which ultimately motivates us to work on our goals indefinitely. Food for thought ;)

To add on to it, it can also be both fear and love that motivates one to achieve their goals. Emotions has a way to direct our focus and attention to do something which we normally would not do.

Agreed @karinzdailygrind

Had a module totally dedicated to emotions back in university. Fascinating stuff!

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Amazing mindset and awareness, man. Good job on achieving so much!

I would credit all those towards communities I was involved with. More of that in the next post. :)

Your thoughts are an illusion if it doesn't feel good, change your thought. You are thinker of your thoughts, NOT your thoughts.

Perfect summary! Thanks @vgc5000

Your welcome! :)

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