To some extent it all comes down to control. People want control but don't want others to have themselves. In centralized systems, it is either their way or the highway. But in decentralized systems, it is dependent on how people organize themselves within the network.

Sometimes, we need to accept the lack of control and just live with it. It leads to a healthier community when you treat others as peers rather than obstacles to your desired state. Nobody is entitled to anything. Find solace in what you find enjoyable and if you need to derive your own personal value from the money of others try to provide those others with a useful service that helps to grow not only yourself but those around you as well.

I think people fail to realize is that a lot of value is derived from the means of making money than the money itself. It doesn't matter how much money you make. It matters how you make the money. You have enough control in that fact itself. It's called freedom.