WHY IT IS A WOMAN SHOLEHAH. THIS IS THE FEATURES OF THE THEY

Rasulullah shallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said: "The woman was married for four things, namely: her property, heritage, beauty, and religion. Get a religious woman, you will be happy. "(Muttafaq Alaihi and Imam Yang Lima). And in another saying; "The world is a temporary pleasure, and the best of the world's enjoyment is a wonderful wife." (HR Muslim and An-Nasa'i).

There are many verses of Allah and the Prophet's teachings that teach women, so that they can become women of God's choice, and best of the world's jewelry. Of course, with this concise article we can not imagine a very large number of verses and hadiths, but it is very easy for women to mirror through their character traits. Some of the common features of God's chosen women are:

Before getting married

1. Woman solehah will not show her aurat in men who are banned by the Shari'a, she will not even let parts of her body be touched, though only shake hands by men who are not herrrim and who have no interest.
2. In the process of introduction or ta'aruf it will not allow himself to be alone with the men.
3. The woman solehah will always keep her, she will not open a special relationship, unless she knows that the man wants to shave herself. Aqidah islam, the understanding and the ideal of a husband, is the basic capital of his criteria.
4. Answering greetings, not speaking except that leads to goodness. Not to overthrow his dignity and dignity by giving men the opportunity to mock him.
5. Do not ask for any property or goods other than the sincerity of a prospective husband to speed up the process of marriage contract.

At the time of marriage and afterwards, the characteristics of women sholehah reflected from their akhlaq

1. Accept the dowry according to the willingness of her husband, as the Messenger of Allah said, "The most blessed women are those who are most eager to dawn". (HR Ahmad and Baihaqi).
2. Always obey and serve their husbands as long as their orders do not conflict with religious orders. Prioritize the interests of the husband rather than his own interests.
3. Can be a good listener, gentle in talking, entertaining, encouraging the hearts of husbands when in trouble and sadness, providing comfort in the household, and always pay attention to appearance, cleanliness, beauty and health care, and istiqomah in worship.
4. When a husband is not at home, he will never allow an unknown man or a man who does not like the husband to enter his house.
5. Maintaining the property of a husband is part of the duty of a good wife, regulating household wealth with no exaggeration and neither gratitude is the thing that is recommended in religion.
6. Finishing homework, preparing the food in accordance with the husband's appetite, observing all the needs of the husband is a form of devotion that is always worth the reward.
7. Whatever it is, she is always grateful for what her husband gives, not complaining, patience in accepting the limitations of the husband, not asking for something more than her husband's ability, respecting her husband's parents, treating them with the best attitude, forgiveness and understanding, is the nature that it always shows.
8. If he works, then he will keep himself in association, abstaining from vain deeds, which can deliver himself in disobedience.
9. Giving charity to the family from his work. Women are a part of their children, they will give the best example for their children, be patient in educating the child, not giving out inappropriate words for children.

At least, this is the characteristic of a woman solehah. Certainly, it does not come naturally, it requires a process. And so-so women will surely choose the man of God's choice, who together lead him through the process .. to achieve the blessings of life in the world and the hereafter. Wallahu A'lam.