Different is the best norm. Everyone being all "cookie cutter" - especially when NOT being tasty cookies - would be boring.

Some naturally want to sing of their days to the world. Some are happy to sit and make finger puppet characters to play with. Some love crazy crowds and loud parties. Some make massive spreadsheets to track their nail polish collection. Some crave the quiet. Some are able to juggle chainsaws. All of the flavors of the rainbow (way more than skittles advertises) for personalities and talents and interests all are perfect as they are if it is who they are. (Well, as long as they don't hurt anyone. But, well, if boxing is the talent or some such then I guess that's okay too. 😜)

(Mad Libs time: Anyone who tells me that I should act a certain way or be a certain way can go _________ themselves.) (There are SO many wonderful things that can go into the blank. 😉)

Hugs and raspberry cheesecake smells. 💖