Destroyed Women Part Three. Different Scenarios of Violence

seyiodus (61)in #women • 6 years ago

Hello everyone. I started a series on women who are facing violence acts and in this series, I want to talk about different ways you can identify violence. These different scenarios do create fear and the victims can lose their identity. to destroy the victims

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Different Scenarios of Violence

These are some of the violence that is common in the society

Physical aggression
Sexual violence
Economic pressure
Intrusion harassment (stalking)

Physical Aggression

Most of the time, physical violence only occurs if the woman is resistant to emotional abuse. The man did not manage to sufficiently control his too independent wife. Physical assaults are not daily with a psychological mistreatment man. They arise when there is an impossibility to speak of a problem when one can no longer think and express his discomfort with words.

Physical violence may be rare or constant. When they are not rejected, there is always a rise in the intensity and frequency. The men often aim at the belly when the woman is pregnant: as if it were necessary to reach its capacity to reproduce, or the face, the eyes as if it were necessary to cancel the gaze that can judge. These gestures clearly show that the other person is canceled as a being.

When women have long suffered humiliations, they have not been able to react, it is possible that an episode of physical violence punished by the law, causes them a click and finally allows them to find a way out. Unfortunately, the complaint to the police often calms the physical assaults, but the violence is still there and manifests itself differently: verbal and psychological attacks.

If the woman reacts to the beatings and eventually gives them back, the man risks turning the situation around by accusing his wife of violence.

Physical violence can also be expressed indirectly by torturing a pet or mistreating a child. The purpose of these attacks is always to scare and it is just as painful as if the blow had been carried directly. The woman experiences suffering through her body, she has a stomach ache, a headache, a muscle ache, etc. As if she had incorporated the message of hate into her.

It has been clinically proven that women who experience violence, whether physical or psychological, have significantly worse health status than other women and consume many more drugs. Which is the proof that a link is made with psychological violence. The violent gesture that one anticipates but which does come as an effect just as destructive than the real blow carried.

Sexual violence

Imposed sexual intercourse is often ignored because it is part of the "conjugal duty". This is still considered a right for the man and an obligation for the woman! Many women accept sex they do not want, just so their partner stops harassing them. Almost all violent men, in their moments of nervousness, use a crude vocabulary, degrading insults, likening the woman to a prostitute.

But sexual violence is above all a means to dominate the other. Nothing to do with desire, but simply for the man a way of saying "you are mine". It must be pointed out that some men feed their sexual fantasies of pornography-driven practices, where male domination is evidently staged.

Economic pressure

Economic pressure must be considered as a particular form of psychological violence, as an additional trap or blackmail, preventing women from going out of the alienating relationship because they have just as much difficulty leaving their partner when they earn a decent living or even when the hardware dependency is reversed.
There is also the more classic case where fear of hardship prevents women from leaving abusive partners. They dread not being able to make ends meet, not to find housing or work.

In all cases, the pressure exerted by the man aims to remove all freedom to the woman, to ensure that it has no room for any plan if it shows signs of separation. In cases where the woman works with her husband, she often finds herself in the second position, in charge of developing her husband. It is not uncommon to find that it is not even fiscally declared and in case of separation has no protection.

In fact, the real obstacle to the departure of women victims of violence is not material dependence but psychological dependence!

Intrusion harassment (stalking)

At the moment of separation, violence and influence become more pronounced and can continue long afterward. The man often refuses to let go of his former companion, as if it were his possession.
The spirit of the violent man is very unsure: I love you, I hate you. This has the effect of putting the woman completely under control and thus prevent it from distinguishing what is good for her from what is not. We then arrive at totally opposing behaviors that seem free of common sense.

There are other scenarios of violence but I want to believe that the once I have listed is the most common ones.
You can share your ideas in the comment below.