I like how you described both transformation and oneness as if they are one thing. Life has its mysterious way of bringing everything together and putting it in apparently different order.

We can’t transform from what we really are because what our essence is is the reason we are here. It is the only place where we can find authentic joy and contentment. Being who you are is more of allowing than transforming. Allowing against all forms of conditioning, judgment and fear. The gap between who someone really is and who he thinks he is can only be covered by removing the layers of identification we cling to and embarking on a journey of self discovery where we drop any thing that we know about ourselves.