Janganlah Mempersulit Diri Sendiri # Don't Complicate Yourself
Hai Steemians
Permasalahan yang menerpa kita dalam menjalani kehidupan ini sebagian besar merupakan hasil dari dramatisasi yang berasal dari kita sendiri. Banyaknya penderitaan yang kita rasankan lebih kepada buatan kita sendiri, kepanikan kita sendiri dan kekhawatiran kita sendiri. Ternyata kesemua hal itulah yang menjadikan kita merasa tertekan serta terbebani. Padahal jika kita menyikapinya dengan pikiran yang jernih dan kepala dingin serta hari yang lapang, kita tidak akan pernah merasa kewalahan dalam menghadapi segala kenyataan yang terjadi di dalam hidup kita.
The problem that hits us in living this life is largely a result of the dramatization that comes from our own. The amount of suffering we feel is more about our own making, our own panic and our own worries. It turns out that all these things make us feel depressed and burdened. Even if we react with a clear mind and cold head and a spacious day, we will never feel overwhelmed in the face of all the realities that occur in our lives.
Dalam hal ini kita dapat mengambil contoh pada seseorang yang merasa sakit pinggang, lalu ia berpikir dan memutuskan akan pergi memeriksakannya ke dokter. Sebelum berangkat, ia bercerita pada orang lain tentang apa yang dirasakannya. Ia menyampaikan segala kekhawatirannya bila yang ia derita adalah penyakit ginjal, maka ia harus menghadapi resiko pengobatan yang tidak sederhana dan mahal. Bahkan ia pun mengutarakan kegelisahannya, bila seandainya ia harus mengalami gagal ginjal dan harus menjalani cuci darah, dan seterusnya.
Senakin si orang ini menceritakan kekhawatirannya dan ketakutannya, maka semakin beratlah bebannya, semakin stresslah ia. Begitu banyak beban yang datang dikarenakan ketakutan-ketakutan yang ia hadirkan sendiri dari dugaan dan perkiraannya. Padahal ia belum berangkat memeriksakan diri kepada sang dokter.
Hal-hal seperti inilah yang banyak terjadi pada diri kita, yang tentunya akan menimbulkan penderitaan jiwa di dalam diri kita sendiri.
In this case we can take a sample of someone who feels lumbago, then he thinks and decides to go see a doctor. Before leaving, he told others about what he felt. He expressed all his concerns if what he suffered was kidney disease, then he had to face the risk of treatment that was not simple and expensive. Even he expressed his anxiety, if he had to experience kidney failure and had to undergo dialysis, and so on. As sure as this person is telling his worries and fears, the heavier the burden, the more stressed he is. So much burden comes due to the fears that he presents himself from his guesses and estimates. Even though he had not yet left to check with the doctor. Things like this are what happens to us a lot, which will certainly cause soul suffering within ourselves.
Steemians, marilah kita mengendalikan diri sedapat mungkin agar terhindar dari mendramatisir segala masalah yang sedang terjadi pada diri kita. Berusahalah untuk tidak terlalu larut dalam perangkap -perangkap sikap yang dapat mempersulit diri. Karena sikap-sikap seperti itulah yang akan semakin memperparah kesulitan serta penderitaan di dalam diri kita.
Hidup ini layaknya siang dan malam, kita siap menghadapi siang dikarenakan kita tahu apa yang akan kita lakukan di siang hari, juga kita tidak panik saat malam menjelang karena kita tahu persis apa yang kita lakukan di waktu malam. Bahkan tidak jarang diantara kita yang sangat mendambakan kedatangan sang malam, karena kita tahu akan banyak manfaat yang kita peroleh di waktu malam. Demikian juga, tidak jarang diantara kita yang menantikan datangnya siang karena kita tahu akan banyak hal-hal yang menyenangkan di waktu siang.
Steemians, let us control ourselves as much as possible to avoid dramatizing all the problems that are happening to us. Try not to be too late in the trap - trapping attitudes that can complicate yourself. Because such attitudes will further aggravate the difficulties and suffering within us. Life is like day and night, we are ready to face the day because we know what we will do during the day, also we don't panic at night because we know exactly what we are doing at night. In fact, it is not uncommon among us who crave the arrival of the night, because we know the many benefits we get at night. Likewise, it is not uncommon for us to wait for the day to come because we know there are lots of fun things in the afternoon.
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