"If you want to write, write it!"

When writing becomes our way of existence in this world, it will constantly find the way to become part of every aspect of life: in love, school, profession.

Elena Ferrante for The Guardian

If you feel the need to write, then you absolutely have to do it. Do not trust those who say to you: If I say good things to you, do not waste your time in vain. The art of discouragement with sweet words is practiced extensively in today's society. You should not even believe in those who say to you: you are too young (new), you lack the life experience, wait. We should not push the moment until you have lived enough. Read enough, pick up a personal room with your own table, with windows overlooking the sea, experiment intentionally, live in stimulating cities, grab a cabin on the top of a mountain, have children, travel as you can.

Publishing on the other hand can be postponed. In fact, you may decide not to publish at all. But writing should in no way be postponed to "afterwards". When writing is our way of existence in this world, he will constantly find the way to become part of every aspect of life: in love, school, profession. Inspiration will insist on being present, even when you have no paper or pencil because we are worshipers of the written word and our mind dictates the sentence even in the absence of equipment that will document them. Writing, in short, is always there, and distances us from the people we love the most, even by the children who are asking us to play with them.

Guilty feelings arrive very soon when we finish writing. If you arrive before you are finished, and if you can not suppress it - if, in other words, the responsibility of love prevails - well, maybe this is a sign that your writing does not have enough power, that your trend is poor and fortunately (yes, thankfully), in the midst of people you are better than artists, most of whom are only for themselves, too self-centered.

But beware: we must refrain from unfruitful illusion, proud, creative cruelty to a quality mark. The desire to shape the world is not a guarantee of good literature. Writing, even when we have a strong inclination, does not necessarily produce unforgettable works.

One can be successful, of course, transforming anger into writing, into a lucrative job. But you can never refer to it as a long-term, professional plan. The success and prestige that comes with it does not prove anything, especially if literary ambitions are high. We remain dissatisfied and, successfully or not, the script will continue to remind us that it is a tool with which we can draw much more than we were able to. Exercise lasts obsessively, desperately, throughout our lives. And if others tell us that quite now, you have given all that you can give, we do not believe it, we do not have to believe. To our ultimate spirit, we will defy ourselves on the suspicion that, only at the moment we seem to have won, we actually lost.

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