Hey there, @richardfyates! One of your followers speaking :D
Steemit could be a very cold and lonely place if you are on your own. I think that the best way to turn it into a fun place is to engage in communities that you like. I was lucky to find @steemstem, @pifcc, and @bananafish so far and they really gave me the feeling of belonging.

Looking forward to seeing your book :D or shall I call it "The survival guide"? :D

Cheers!