Your post doesn't represent what led to this situation. To appreciate how it led to this, one has to be very perceptive. It is easier when you understand their culture and language - it is all very subtle. The aggression is very subtle. I am glad for you but posting this doesn't advance your case in my very humble opinion, for reasons stated first. Just let them get on with what they do, which is - well, now you know what they do ;-)