Unrelated : Are you alone and lonely for a long time? How does it serve you? You may need this solitude to focus on your inner self without distraction (or so you think)

So I could say that my loneliness (which I don't consider to be what I have sought, but rather what I have been given) may be necessary to have a greater focus on myself? This could be completely valid, currently I seek to improve from within, life as a mom, totally change my life, it is likely that today I do not have time for love, at least I know I do not have time to look for it, time has been reduced in all areas, then the little time I focus on me and what I must improve and learn, I feel that spiritually there is a great void to correct, but all this leads me to a question, having a partner, I could not focus on me anymore? or if that happens, am I with the wrong partner?
Thank you very much for these interesting topics, happy saturday