You might be choosing (unconsciously) to remain poor...

That’s a great point! This might be the main difference between whether you are rich or poor. I’m not poor, I’m not rich either and I noticed many times when I go back in time, I somehow subconsciously refuse to become rich.
I understand why people try to create drama when they get bored. I’m witnessing it myself. My friends, my wife, including me, not too often, I’m a very patient non controversial and quiet person, but sometimes I have my moments as well. Basically everyone. I’m a bit confused about health. Does it mean people try to get attention because they are sick or because they are healthy. Perhaps both is the case and I agree. When it comes to relationships, my friend is alone, she has never been in any relationship. Is she afraid to be in relationship or to be exposed? I’ve always asked myself this question.