How To Get Over A Sad Situation
All of us face sad moments in our lives at one point or the other. Life is a mixture of happy and sad moments, it is true that everybody always prays for happiness to never cease from their lives, but the inevitable sometimes lurk in when we least expected and spoils all the happiness that filled our lives.
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These sad times are trying times and one would need every ounce of courage in order not to lose it, so I decided to help out in giving tips on how to get over a sad situation.
NO SMOKE WITHOUT A FIRE
• There is no smoke without a fire they say, likewise every sad situation in life should have a root cause, sometimes you might be unfortunate that there may be a myriad of causes that would escalate to the problem. The ability to dig deeper to find out the root cause of the problem is the first step towards getting over that situation.
TAKE THE BULL BY THE HORN
• After identifying the problem, the next thing to do is to try to stop the fire from burning, by this I mean, you would try to address the causes of your sadness in your best ability to be able to restore your happy state. If the cause is a misunderstanding with a co-worker or a family member, try and take out time to talk about the problem. It is best to swallow your pride and sum up enough courage and deal with the root cause. Sometimes this might be very tasking and you may need to seek assistance from a friend.
The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering the attitude of their minds
William James
A FRIEND IN NEED IS A FRIEND INDEED.
• A problem shared is a problem half solved., sometimes we might not know that the answer to our problems is just next door. If we speak to people about our problems, there might be able to offer help or refer to a person that is capable of helping. Everybody certainly has something to offer if only we are humble to ask nicely.
An open mind leaves a chance for someone to drop a worthwhile thought into it
PREVENT A RE-OCCURRENCE
• If you succeeded in getting over your sad situation, then you have to close the doors to what started the whole mess, you can even lock the door and throw away the keys and go on with your life. Life is truly what you make it
When faced with a similar situation in life, learn how to channel the negative vibes towards a positive one and keep maintain your emotional tone always. As a matter of fact, life itself is tough but it is rewarding –especially when you are tough on yourself.
I once wrote these articles
How To Maintain A positive Attitude (Despite Negative Circumstances) and
How To Deal With The Death Of A Loved One.
You can find useful information there as these are a typical examples of sad situation that can occur to anybody.
Feel free to drop by on @air-clinic discord server later today to get to hear other people share their advice on how to get over a sad situation.
Check out this article on @air-clinic's blog
https://myairclinic.com/blog/2018/07/11/how-to-get-over-a-sad-situation/
Thanks for reading
@antigenx
In life problems are meant to occur as long as we are social beings. Sad situations normal comes wth these problems and normally many lose hope because they feel like their bad situation will never change. I agree with the solutions you outlined for overcoming bad situations anf I believe if take seriously will help many. For me when I am in a bad situation the first thing Ibdo is pray and seek the face of my maker.Next is try to access the source of the problem and constructively deal with it. Sharing of problem with friends not my thing but it helps to let others in to help you out of it.
It is important web know the kind of people we are sharing with. Really love last part..."we must avoid re-occurance"... re- occurance is the root cause of all problems, since people don't learn from their past.Your post have been selected as one of the winners for @wafrica post of the day and received 70% upvote boost from @wafrica.curators.
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Very cool article @antigenx
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