50 Shades of a rigged game...

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50 shades of Gray – the erotic novel of a sadist (male), inflicting his desires upon a female. (dominant /submissive relationship)
One of the biggest selling books of all time, bought overwhelmingly by women – FACT

People buy books because they want to read them, and are positively attracted to the content.

It today's society, a large proportion of women find more aggressive, lower IQ , emotionally unstable males, attractive.
('bad boys')

With this predisposition of choosing a mate, they tend to end up as single mothers.
(Surprise, surprise.)

Genetic traits are just that. These male traits mentioned here can - and will be- passed on, to their offspring.

Hence the offspring will be more prone to the same behavioral patterns, and so the cycle is perpetuated.

The female choice of the future males in society- genetically speaking- is ultimately the females choice, a females responsibility - it is not a male choice.

The first five years of any child's life are the most important - in respects of how you will be shaped you as an adult.

Mothers are the main influence on the child's first 5 years of life.

How they turn out as adults - IS MASSIVELY the mothers influence.

Take responsibility.
(putting children in day care, to be taught by someone not invested personally in that child, is NOT taking responsibility)

Females are the greatest recipient of government money, vis-a- vis welfare.

Males are the greatest providers of taxpayer contributions.

The transfer of wealth is a male to female dynamic, usurped by the state as the provider of resources to females- rather than directly from a male in a relationship (I.E. traditional breadwinner)

The law is predominantly on the side of the mothers in almost any judicial decisions concerning the re-allocation of resources.

Women have the social luxury of absolving themselves of any negative outcomes regarding children, and at the same time blaming men, and taking their resources.

“you got me pregnant” is a statement merely saying

“I take no responsibility" (for my actions)


Men's apparent strength, is their weakness.

Women's apparent weakness, is their strength

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"In today's society, a large proportion of women find more aggressive, lower IQ , emotionally unstable males, attractive."
So that's why I am so unpopular with the ladies.

On the upside, if you don't drag your knuckles, you are less likely to have paternity payments lol

Interesting read. Will have to re-read it again. Love the last quote of your post, "Men's apparent strength is their weakness. Women's apparent weakness is their strength."

A very brief synposis of a you tube vid I watched. The 'quote' was on that, so can't claim credit for it.
But it is good, in context of this conversation.

Thanks for clarifying. Still an awesome post and an interesting take and view on male/female relationships.

It's one I have held for many year, tbh .

I know of guys crucified by the courts - virtually bankrupted, living in a hovel, so he can keep up payments! -while the wife gets all his money and the house, and has a new guy at the same time.
(not me- phew!)

It really is a rigged game - And i think men are getting wise to it.

That's why marrying the right person, and not just the person who just happens to be there is crucial for a successful relationship that will last years.

Once a divorce is brought up and the courts get involved, things always turn uglier faster. I've seen it first hand as well but in my case, there was never a winner. Just two people making each other's lives miserable.

Sad but this happens too often.

IF i ever have a relationship longer than 10 years - I might consider it lol

I think if you found the right person, 10 years will seem like 10 minutes.

I met a driver once who was driving WAY past the legal limit.
Just so that he could pay his child support.
If he didn't make those payments on time.
He'd go to jail. It had happened to him once already.

Tired driver (more like exhausted..he only got ...like..two hours of sleep a night..) on the road driving a semi-truck
what could possibly go wrong?

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