I agree with you that communication and actions should have occurred so that people weren't put in that situation. It's sad that there is so much reactive and less proactive attitudes. And this sounds like a whole new level of disrespect brandishing/firing a gun at a church/funeral. I hope that nobody was hurt and the authorities clean things up. It makes total sense that your wife would be very shaken by this event especially with all that has been going on and the direction of violence this decade. Thanks for sharing.