@zyzymena, reading through yours write up on this topic sometimes make me to pause and start thinking how old you possibly are because even some old men and women who have passed through the college of experience cannot offer some of these wonderful ideas and advices you offer here. You're really blessed.

Anonymous 1
Your concluding comment

I love her so much

got me thinking what love is all about. How can you claim to love someone and you're planning of how to take your pound of flesh?
My brother, if you cannot whole heartedly forgive her please kindly take your leave as you cannot swear that you have not cheated anyone in any way in your entire life before.

Anonymous 2
My dear, this ladies in question in my own thinking is suffering from emotional instability probably due to her previous experience. You either give her space to allow her emotions stablize or you should learn how to manage to cope with her while assuring her that her fears about you and your intentions are not true.