You are a GOOD man, good sir - I have never even attempted the endeavor of growing facial hair (although the thought of a pristine 'SOUL patch' might be mildly curious). Personally, since giving up on dating over 10 yrs ago I eventually decided to grow my hair until and unless I ever changed my mind on this awful, companion-FREE lifestyle (increasingly appears to be less by choice and more by fate...). Best of luck with the new look and STEEM Onward nonetheless brotherman!