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RE: When You Have One, Contributed by @Olawalium

in #friendship6 years ago

One of the many things we take for granted is friendship.

I agree with you on this, as we all know that two head are better than one, and no man is an island, it is good to keep some good friends, we don't always value friendship since we believe they should be there for us at all time even if we don't actually contributed our own quarter to their life. We have to remember this, contribute to life what you expect by from life, though we don't always get all we ever needed or work for.

Today, majority of the friendship now is build on personal gain, the mutual aspect of it has been neglected, it is only base on what I can get and not what I can contribute, for a good relationship to work out well there should be great intimacy between the so called friends.

Friends are to be there for one another all the time, though there are some situations In which one will not be available but once there is understanding and agreement between these friends, there won't be any problem since they are always there for each other.

The make a friendship work out well the people involved must be ready to make sacrifices, sometimes it will not be convenient but you have to do it for friend, what is even call a friend when you can not be there for each other when you need it.

Friendship that is build on personal gain will always worn out with time.

Friendship is a two-way​ street

That is how it should be not the other way round, a good friendship should be build on what you can actually contribute to the life of your friends and not what you can always get.
I believe In this popular saying, give and take is what life require, you cannot be demanding all the time and you believe you could keep the friendship, that is absolutely not possible,

We have to remember this, contributing one's quarter no matter how small or little it might seem and always look after one another, this will help in keeping the friendship In no small amount. Thanks always, for your motivating and captivating articles.

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Yes friend are to be there for each other but we don't know their usefulness until they leave our side . Did you notice that!?

Absolutely brother, we don't always realize the usefulness of people with us at a moments until they leave which is not always good, we have to learn how to keep people with us always but that doesn't mean you should force ourselves too much on what we can't always afford just to keep the relationship going. We should always look out for one another that is what friendship requires, you have a great insight on this topic.

Totally true. Thank you for this.

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