Being a Parent
They said, It is really hard being a parent. The responsibility is so big. You have to feed your kids, give them clothing, foods, buy them toys, go to a nice place, give them education, support them etc. Too many ways to express your love .
As a parent myself, i want to give him things to the best that I can and with my full ability. I’d love to see those little moments while he is just a baby, a toddler and soon a kid. And regardless the hardship of parenting, the best feeling is that you have a son/daughter which comes from you, as they say half you and half your love.
I clearly remember the advice of my boss.. He mentioned that in order for your kids to understand the weigh of what he/she is doing. It should be done either of the two (mother OR father). Not both of them! Whyyyyyy?? Example, when the father are saying something or scolded the kid, the mother should pause or stop in saying something. Let the father do the scolding. And if the mother’s turn to do so, the father must be quiet and let his wife discipline the kid.
We are in a working process for these but eventually when things are set up, both of us will be guided in giving the right discipline when the right time comes. As of now, we are enjoying the moment that we spent each day. Enjoying to see him grow, how cute he is and how we’re happy and responsible we are being his parents.
Happy Weekends!
your baby is so so cute 😊
Thank you 💕
It seems like good advice. I've never thought about the fact that it's better for a kid to receive certain information from one person, and when everyone around you is scolding, it's hard to get the point. But I'm pretty sure it's hard to do at the beginning.
I agree that it sounds like a good solution for some parents, but I believe that it's impossible to teach children something by yelling at them. It's way better to have a calm talk. If you're telling me that it's impossible, I bet you haven't even tried. Kids don't try to make you mad on purpose, so there's no need to be mad. The last time I almost got mad was when I bought a climbing playground for kids, and they decided to spend their whole day there. I was asking them to go and eat lunch, but they refused to go, so I just started putting it away with them on top. They had to go down, but since I told them that they were allowed to play there after lunch, they agreed, and we managed to avoid scolding.