Good morning @wakeupkitty

If you cannot be you, what should you do?
Nothing if it doesn't bother you. Keep in mind most people play a role or even more as just one role every day of their life.

That's right. Most people play different roles on daily basis. We act differently depending on who do we interact with.

Plus reality is that in current age most people do not even know who they are. Especially younger once. Identity crisis is easy to spot. People (at least here in Asia) are super addicted to their iphones and majority looks like robots.

ps.
I'm not so sure if you even celebrate Valentine's Day, but in case if you do I just wanted to wish you to have good time tonight.

Either with someone close to your heart or perhaps simply with some friends. Or simply alone watching some movie and having an icecreams :)

Yours
Piotr