In many ways we are made up of our wrong choices. One only hopes to have the ability to see them and then learn and grow from them. Otherwise, we won't be very well rounded we'll simply keep making the same mistake over and over again. This will go wrong, but how we adjust and reasses makes all the difference I think. I've had many female friends who simply continued to make the Same wrong choice concerning men. I learned early on saying something like, "well isn't he just a carbon copy of your last one" was not what was wanted. After that I kept my mouth shut, but it is our own personal journey to make, we can only hope we do it right and that our friends can see the same or change they need :)