Cheating is a Choice, Not a Mistake
At first you thought that you were the happiest couple alive. You would think that you were literally for each other. The way he smile, the way he held your hand, the way he looked at you. It was something out of a fairytale. But what if he cheated on you? What would you feel? How will you react when you caught your partner with someone else?
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If this was ever happened to you, you know exactly how it really feels. You feel the pain in your body. You feel the pain inside. You feel the pain absolutely everywhere. You feel pain in whereever you go and whatever you do.
And so often in these situation, it's shown that the thing we think is "its all my fault". Even if we're the ones who just been cheated on were wondering maybe we're wasn't good enough. Thinking of what we could we've done diffirently?or what is it that they saw in that other person?
The most amazing things is when someone cheats on you reflects so much more of who they are and not so much of who you are. Recognize that them cheating is a reflection of their insecurities. Dont let that amplify your own. And if you cheat on aomeone that is willing to do anything for you, you actually cheated yourself out of true loyalty. Cheating on a good person is like throwing away diamond and picking up a rock.
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Cheating is a choice not a mistake. You cheat because you love someone else other than your partner. It may come in different way. Cheating can be really subtle. It doesn't have to be kissing, meeting or getting physical with someone else. As soon as you see yourself deleting those messages to hode them from your partner, you've already started. It may not be cheating yet, but it's planting a seed. And cheater don't think cheating is wrong until they get cheated on.
It's so important to understand this.
"People don't cheat because they don't respect their partners, people cheat because they don't respect themselves".
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exactly it is not an accident it's your choice orur choice!
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Thank you, I needed this. Hope you have a great day. Can't wait to see the other posts.
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Good post @jasonabejero.
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I agree on your post @jasonabejero, cheating is choice and not a mistake.
You are right! Cheating is a bit much more than just "everything will be ok if she doesn't find out". What about psychology? Do you really think that loving that woman and cheating on her feels good? I have a great example- my friends, or an ex married couple. It's destroying! What began as fun ended with a total paranoia and an awful divorce. Firstly, he just couldn't handle the secret. We are human beings, you can't resist becoming love and knowing what a piece of trash you are. Then, she kinda forgave him, but apparently, the trust doesn't come back. She was constantly tracking him on https://phonemonitoring247.com. He was always guilty and a perfect marriage ruined in a moment.