You are right! Cheating is a bit much more than just "everything will be ok if she doesn't find out". What about psychology? Do you really think that loving that woman and cheating on her feels good? I have a great example- my friends, or an ex married couple. It's destroying! What began as fun ended with a total paranoia and an awful divorce. Firstly, he just couldn't handle the secret. We are human beings, you can't resist becoming love and knowing what a piece of trash you are. Then, she kinda forgave him, but apparently, the trust doesn't come back. She was constantly tracking him on https://phonemonitoring247.com. He was always guilty and a perfect marriage ruined in a moment.