How do you think I can change from an Antisocial introvert to an extrovert or social being?

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First, it would be important to note that it is almost difficult to automatically switch from an introvert to an extrovert. Being an introvert isn't a bad thing. Infact, research has it that most of the big brains are introverts. This is because they are being left alone to think up great ideas which they execute and make the world a better place. Although, having a little trait of extrovertedness isn't a bad thing but truth is, you cannot completely ignore your introverted side and become all extroverted all of a sudden. That being said, here are few steps to help you transit from an introvert to an extrovert.

• Understand that you are an Introvert: Transiting from an introvert to an extrovert takes time. And in the process of this wait, a lot of introverts gets frustrated and give up trying. So, the first thing you should understand is that you are an introvert and will always be one. It's in your DNA and you can only shine brighter as an introvert but you can not completely abandon being an introvert.
• Understand the Extrovertish Traits: If you want something, you need to know what it is to get it. You can't say you want something and not know exactly what that thing is. You must be able to understand and clearly identify an extrovert trait. Understand all the traits and patterns of an extrovert.
• Practice: After you have understood those extroverts trait, then you should start by practicing them. Most of the traits will be completely opposite of what you already have and understand and so you will fail many times, but you must never give up practicing.
• Make Friends With An Extroverts: Search out one who is an extrovert and make friends with them. Chances are, they will like to carry you along whenever they are going out and by so doing, you will also be more outgoing. Watch them, and learn from them. Do what they do so as to improve your extrovertish side.
• Never Give Up: Truth be told, transiting from an introvert to an extrovert can be really hard. This is because, it's in our DNA and it's not possible to automatically overwrite a DNA. You will fail many times, you will feel, this is not the kind of life you should be living, you will feel lost but most importantly, DO NOT BE DISCOURAGED.

Cheers, to your success. JI