RE: "I Cannot Approach Women No Matter How Hard I Try!"
Very interesting topic. While I do think there's something to the "just suck it up and do it" approach. I think when people just suck it up and do it, even if it's awkward, at the end of the day your alive after it, it didn't kill you and after doing that a few times you realize worst thing that happens is an awkward moment or two before you run away lol.
That said like you allude to I think there's more to it. While part of it is shyness and anxiety of rejection, it's also a lack of confidence. By improving yourself in other areas of your life you gain confidence and then can more easily approach people. \
Ultimately I think this comes down to giving 100% to everything you do in your life. Work hard at your job, keep your house clean, keep your appearance up, if you do hobbies or workout give it your best. When you start doing this you notice you start to develope more confidence
Yes, very true. 2 people can both feel anxiety, but one can feel much more than the other. It usually boils down to lack of confidence and self-acceptance. This person is trying to prevent the negative consequences of approaching women (i.e. getting exposed, making her bored, rejection, etc.)