WHen things get hard and times are tough, I often venture outside as well. To take in the surroundings and find some peace in things that I can not change. I then try to take that perspective into my life. There are things that happen in life, that as much as we want to control them, we cant. I hope things turn around for you and you get to have that beaver mentality. Just so you know, you can, its just up to you to make it so. In the mean time, keep your head held high and let the negative roll off your back! Much love sent your way.